You may not be given this kind of support in this forum, because it concerns illegal copies of the game and the administrators of Modding Union (the very Edain Team) might then be sued for unlawful behaviour, according to German law. You are right, though, when you say that it's now really hard to get BFME games via legal ways. I may only tell you that there surely are other alternative options for your case, as I assume that most of the players do play the game without the proper CD. But this is information that cannot be provided publicly, due to the aforementioned reasons.
I can only suggest you try your luck and seek what you long for in the unexplored width of the Internet. Only through searching shall you find the answers to your case